A New Way Of “Dating”


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This is about Circular Dating.

Circular Dating is NOT “dating.”

Circular Dating is interacting with men!

Circular Dating is all about YOU.

Circular Dating is about keeping the focus on you.

Actually, getting to the heart of it, Circular Dating is about men focusing on you!

Circular Dating is about the intentions of men who are focusing on you.

YOU are the target of their intentions and

You CHOOSE the level of interaction with any man.

There are four different levels of interaction with men in Circular Dating:

1. Interacting with men out in the world in your day to day experiences and noticing the men who are noticing you
2. Having contact and communications with men who are interested in you
3. Spending time with men who are interested in you (going out on dates – even if it’s your husband)
4. Intimate contact (kissing, hugging, intimacy . . .)








  1. Inger on September 11, 2014 at 5:59 am

    I´ve always liked to interact with men, it make’s me feel good and happy. The problem is that I have difficulties to set my boundaries. For example I’ve been working in food stores for many years and it’s important to talk and smile to all customers and to men maybe some flirting that for me can be very innocent. And I have experienced many times that a lot of men becomes to interested in me and then I don’tknow how to handle it. I’ve also experienced jealosy from a former boyfriend when I was talking, smiling in my way to men. With these experiences and my failure to find real love I have subdued myself. Now i understand that I am the one to choose, but how can I set boundaries and still be a smiling, lovely, positive woman ?

    • Tatia on September 11, 2014 at 5:48 pm

      Hi Inger:

      What you are describing is the “unzip your heart” part of leaning back!

      We’ve all experienced that nervous feeling of not knowing what to do when a man comes forward once we are leaning back!!!

      What we do is use these situations as
      “circular dating” moments to practice tolerating intimacy

      Allowing a man to lean forward and show interest (and want more from you)
      is something you have to adjust to and
      learn to feel more comfortable with
      rather than feel nervous
      which causes you to lean forward and/or shut down.

      The key is practicing RECEIVING from a man.

      There’s a tool we use in coaching
      where you just feel what a man is giving to you (waterwheel)
      and it helps you adjust to receiving in a leaning back position!



  2. G Spot on September 17, 2014 at 7:09 pm

    Hey now I have been circular dating and didn’t even realize lol. Now I know!

    • Tatia on September 18, 2014 at 3:00 pm

      Dear G Spot:
      Yes! You get it! You’ve been doing this all along, now you know how to REFINE it. And now you know to LEAN BACK, and WHY you are leaning back. How has your experience been now that you’re reconnecting with your feminine power. If you haven’t read my report yet, here’s the link: https://powertolove.com/report/ .



      • Lori on January 6, 2022 at 6:34 am

        Hi Tatia,

        Thank ypu very much for all of this amazing information. Being empathic and highly sensitive, which is absolutely amazing, yet I can feel my energy merge with a mans and then I go into the masculine. As soon as I realize it, I lean back to go into my receiving. This really feels delightful and very soft. Do you have any suggestions that can assist me in moving more fully in the Divinely Feminine energy? My energy feels very yummy and pastel pinkish!!!

  3. joss on September 18, 2014 at 12:42 am

    i want to know more about exclusivity with sex
    what if i hook up with a new man but my old man comes back to try again?

    • Tatia on September 18, 2014 at 3:11 pm

      Hi Joss:

      For me, Sexual Exclusivity is about only sleeping with one man at a time.

      This is a rule we each make up for ourselves.

      So the way this rule works based on my approach is that if you decide to switch from being intimate with one person to a different one, that’s fine.

      The important thing is to speak your truth.

      From the beginning you have a discussion with a man you sleep with about what “sleeping together” means to you.

      Sexual Exclusivity to me means that I am only sleeping with one person, and that person is only sleeping with one person (ME).

      If it does not mean the same thing to him,
      or if he is NOT in agreement with this,
      then I DON’T sleep with him
      and I let him know that during that short discussion.

      This would sound something like this:
      “Wow, okay, I feel so relieved we were able to talk about this
      and understand that we are not on the same page.
      I feel great just going out on dates with you instead.”

      This is leaning back and speaking your truth.

      So think of what YOUR rule is for sexual exclusivity,
      how it feels to you
      and discuss it with him when you make your decision.

      This way, whatever happens, you’re speaking your truth to both men.



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