Your Appreciation List

Appreciation List – Make a list of what you appreciate about him, what he does that makes you feel good and the positive things that he makes you feel. Use your Love Words to let him know what it is you appreciate about him. Tell him what he does that you like and that you…

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Getting Your Needs Met

How to avoid the anger, disappointment and feelings of blame that your needs are not met. Do you get the feeling of unhappiness or dissatisfaction with your life/relationship? Do you feel that your life isn’t headed in the direction that you thought it should be? Are you blaming a man, family member, yourself or a…

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Pause . . . And Just Be

letting go of the urge to control the relationship

No matter how much you lean back  Do you still find yourself feeling like putting demands on your man? Wanting him to do things the way you want them done? Are you wanting to control how he treats you?   I’ve been there and it can feel awful. You feel yourself leaning forward but you…

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The Booty Call Rule

the booty call rule

Dear Tatia:   You have a rule for everything about men, what about a booty call rule? Do you have one of those?  I am in love with Greg.  I love his sex and I can’t resist him.  Everytime he comes here we have sex.  Everytime.  My friends say to stop giving him what he…

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Your Sex Rules

 Dear Coach Tatia: Been dating Stephan for 3 months.  We have a good connection.  He wants to have sex.  I want to. But not yet.  I feel like a slut sleeping with him this soon.  But I want to.  I get really shy about sex.  We’ve had oral sex and I did like you said…

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Your Dating & Relationship Rules

  Valentine’s Day – A celebration of Love. Luckily I celebrate Love quite often, not just in February. But I do use this time to acknowledge how much better love feels these days. I’m feeling grateful for changes in my love life. I’m thankful for not repeating past mistakes (anymore). I’m looking back and realizing…

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Live Your Passion Outside Of Your Relationship

    DO WHAT YOU LOVE Live Your Passions Outside Of Your Relationship! You Live Your Passion By Doing What You Love! What do you desire in your life (besides the kind of love you want)? Living Your Passion is embracing a bigger picture of life. The passion I’m referring to is a much broader…

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