THE FEMININE WOMAN'S DATING GUIDE

THE FEMININE WOMAN'S DATING GUIDE

RULE #1 

Adjusting Your Approach to Dating . . .

Imagine a Queen ruling over her kingdom . . .
She's ready for a King to join her  . . .
How does the Queen entertain prospective kings?

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SHE PREPARES HERSELF TO GIVE AN AUDIENCE TO HER SUITORS
SHE DECIDES WHAT TYPE OF KING SHE WANTS
SHE REMEMBERS WHAT'S AT STAKE (HER VALUE/KINGDOM)

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YOU are that Queen!
(and you must always remember that dating requires the following royal approach)

 

RULE #2

The key is how you interact with the men who approach you or who you encounter.

You must maintain your value at all times!

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Think of it this way - you [the Queen] are at the center of a huge circle

- the circle includes the places you visit/travel to during the course of your daily, weekly, monthly and annual routines including virtual places on line ("men out in the world")

- You are the target of the attention, curiosity, affection, love, respect, friendship, etc. of the men who you interact with ("men who notice you")

- You accept invitations and opportunities to communicate with men who would like to get to know you better ("men who are interested in you")

- You entertain small amounts of time [30-45 minutes - but never more than an hour] with men who want to spend time with you ("Dating")

- You choose [using wisdom, experience and feminine skill] to experience intimate moments with a man who is emotionally attracted to you ("intimate relationship")

Interacting With Men

Feminine Energy Woman Dating Guide - circle of interaction

So, this circle has five levels of interaction you can experience with men who:

are Out in the World

notice you

are interested in you

want to spend time with you (a/k/a Dating)

and a man who you share intimate moments with.

 

HERE'S A VISUAL OF THE 5 LEVELS OF INTERACTION: 

OUTER LEVEL (white): Interacting With Men Out In The World
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BLUE INNER LEVEL: Interacting With Men Who Notice You
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GREEN INNER LEVEL: Interacting With Men Interested In You
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ORANGE INNER LEVEL: Interacting With Men Who You Spend Time With
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RED INNER LEVEL: Interacting With A Man Who You Share Intimacy With
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RULE #3

Experience your feminine energy in the presence of any man you interact with.

Which of the following words speak the strongest to your feminine energy?

i am authentic

 

The feminine energy word (or words) you chose is like your feminine "theme music" that's constantly playing in the background of your mind.  Allow your word(s) to gently redirect your thoughts from any masculine energy back to your feminine energy. Rori Raye calls this "Shifting Your Vibe."  You want to stay in your feminine energy so that he'll continuously feel drawn to you and want to keep a connection with you.

 

HERE'S HOW YOU WOULD INTERACT WITH A MAN AT EACH LEVEL:

OUTER LEVEL (white): Interacting with a man out in the world
Feminine Energy Woman Dating Guide - circle of interaction

 

This most outer level of of the circle involves a man you see in your day-to-day experiences.  He could be a man in a restaurant, supermarket, department store, on your commute, gas station, coffee shop, medical office, school, church or at work.  This is the easiest man to practice being in your feminine with! You can practice smiling, using feeling messages and letting him open a door for you.

 

 

BLUE INNER LEVEL: Interacting with a man who notices you Feminine Energy Woman Dating Guide - circle of interaction

 

(Continue your practice from the prior level) At this level it's important to notice him.  A man may look at you, quickly look away and then look in your direction again (lol).  You can "notice" him by smiling and then going back to whatever you were doing - or, if you feel interested in him (intuition), you can practice holding eye contact for five seconds while you smile.

 

GREEN INNER LEVEL: Interacting a man who's interested in you
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(Continue your practice from the prior levels) This is a man who starts a conversation with you or just says "hello."  He could ask for your number or just make small talk.   Whether you're interested in him or not, he's attempting to communicate with you to show interest.  Enjoy receiving his attention!  Remain curious about him (rather than feel nervous, attracted, judgmental or future think). BEWARE, this level is where a situationship can develop and reside! 

 

ORANGE INNER LEVEL: Spending time with a man
Feminine Energy Woman Dating Guide - circle of interaction

 

(Continue your practice from the prior levels) There are numerous possibilities at this level.  Spending time with a man can involve coffee dates; the walk back to the office at the end of your lunch break; attending the same function or event; first/fifth/tenth/twentieth date with a man; or any other instance where you grace a man with your presence. Here's where you really lean back!  You're practicing receiving & responding each time you spend time with a man.  Also be sure to regularly review your personal/relationship needs.

 

RED INNER LEVEL: Getting closer!
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(Continue your practices from the prior levels) This inner most level of your rotation of men is where a man can get the closest to you by holding hands, hugging, kissing, touching, cuddling or intercourse.  It's intimate contact.  RULE #4 - ONLY DO WHAT FEELS COMFORTABLE TO YOU Consider your boundaries and remember to keep your options open (meaning, you do not become exclusive or tied down to a man completely until he proposes to you). 

 

WHAT TO DO IF YOU HAVE NO DATES OR ONLY FIRST DATES

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RULE #5

Remember that feminine energy exists inside of you & radiates to be experienced by men.

Begin by reading Reconnect With Your Feminine Power.

Next, practice STEP ONE.

Continue to take each additional step until your dating situation improves.

 

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Step One

GET OUT THERE
(Where would a Good Man find you?)

Note: your focus isn't about where to go to meet a guy.
Instead, your focus is on where could he meet you!

Make a list of the places you go in your daily routines.
List some additional places you could go to alone or with friends/family/coworkers (****2022 NOTE: always follow any social distancing rules or practice in effect****).

Examples:
Movies/Theater
Coffee Shops
Book Store
Shopping Mall
Museums/Exhibits/Festivals
Church/Synagogue
Singles' Meet up/Speed dating events/Expats events
Volunteer/Charity events
School events
Community classes (cooking, dancing, wine pairing)
Sport events/games

Now, pick one place to visit within the next several days/weeks/months or when possible.

 

 

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Step Two

BE YOUR BEST SELF
(Confidence is alluring)

No need to go shopping for a new wardrobe!  This step is easy:

Go in your closet and put together your best outfit (don't forget your accessories).

These are the clothes that you look and feel your best in!

Remember the place you picked in Step One?

Well, this outfit is what you're going to wear.

Get dressed, style your hair and make sure your nails/makeup (however you "clean up" nice) are done.

Out the door you go!

 

 

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Step Three

YOU ARE COMPLETE
(Not searching for your 'other half')

A Good Guy recognizes a woman who is "together."
Put another way, he avoids a woman who is clingy, problematic, or a walking go-fund-me account.

Take good care of yourself  . . . body mind and soul.  Manage your affairs (or get volunteer or professional assistance). A relationship will never solve your problems and a Good guy will eventually tire of trying to "fix" your life.

Note: this is not a one-time quick fix.
Taking care of yourself (and your obligations) is a life long process.

Make a plan of what you want to improve,
list out what's required to achieve it
and then take action.

This way, no matter what your situation is,
your story is not a "tale of woe,"
but instead, you portray a self image of feminine confidence and progress.

 

 

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Step Four

MAINTAIN YOUR BASE
(Keep your identity)

You've seen it/done it before . . . a woman can easily lose focus of her friends, family, hobbies and schedule when she's swept up in the early stages of dating.

While exploring becoming a "couple" can mean integrating lifestyles (and there will, of course, be some changes in your schedule), please remember never to abandon

  • Doing the things you most enjoy
  • Your "me time" necessities
  • Rituals/gatherings/meet-ups with good friends/family

Be sure to schedule your dating activities into your lifestyle - leaving some time to yourself to rejuvenate and maintain yourself.

 

 

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Step Five

DON'T RUSH
(Avoid the "instant relationship" trap)

Enjoy dating but remember to always listen to your intuition.

Allow sufficient time to get to know a man.

Revisit Step Four (above) to keep your schedule while allowing any dating situation to progress at a comfortable pace.

 

 

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Step Six

FOLLOW "THE MAN GUIDE"

Feminine Energy Woman Man Guide

 

 

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Step Seven

PRACTICE THE "DON'T DO LIST"

feminine energy relationship don't do list

 

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Step Eight

GET THE "LOVE BOOK"

The Love Book - A New Way of Dating - Circular Dating Details

 

 

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Step Nine

ENROLL IN THE ACADEMY

 

 

 

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Step Ten

SCHEDULE A COACHING SESSION

 

 

 

 

 

Noticing, Choosing & Interacting

I remember how exciting it was when I first learned this new way to Love . . .

It was a whole new approach to men!

It changed 

- how and when I spoke to men,

- how I responded to men and

- how I began to feel about myself, which was more sexy and powerful.

I felt like the center of attention, like my dance card was always TOO full, and that I didn't need to chase, call, email, or do anything to feel connected to a man.

It was an amazing experience! 

Once I noticed men noticing me . . .

(and rather than immediately judge an interested man who approached me and wanted to communicate)

I Leaned Back, remained open, received the attention & started communicating with different interesting men!

While I didn't date but a few of them, the quality of men interested in me began to increase!

It felt really good to Keep the Focus on Me and always feel in control of myself, knowing the choice was always mine!

It's a new way of dealing with men and "dating."
As I've said before, this is all about HOW you interact with any man . . .

Who is Noticing You,

Who is Interested in and Communicating with You, 

Who is Spending Time with You, and

Who You may be Intimately Involved with.

Any man who is noticing you, interested in you, spending time with you or intimate with you is in your Rotation of Men.

 

You see, this is not just about dating.  Every woman,  whether she is single, married or in a relationship, interacts with men on a daily basis!

 

We all have men who are interested in us even though we may be involved with someone else.

 

This new approach to interacting with a man is about being open to receiving the attention of men, at the level you're comfortable with.

 

Thus, a married woman could say "good morning" and smile at the coffee barista each day before work . . .

 

A woman dating the same man for years can have conversations with a trainer at her gym every time they see each other there . . .

 

A woman who is single and dating can spend time at brunch, lunch, dinner, at the movies or anywhere else with different men who are interested in her. . .

 

The point is, YOU get to decide what level of interaction to have with any man in  your Rotation.

 

SO HOW DO YOU GET STARTED?  It begins with being in your Feminine Power and interacting with people out in the world.
 

You Start By Being In The Moment.  

By Leaning back and noticing people.
By staying in touch with your feelings.
By practicing smiling, holding eye contact and receiving attention.
You start by being "open" and receiving the attention of an interested man who approaches you (without judging or dismissing him), knowing the CHOICE of level to interact is YOURS.