Feeling Desirable

De·sir·a·ble – wanted or wished for as being attractive or necessary 

Irresistible feminine sexy woman leaning back with her man who desires her


Whether you’re single or married, it’s important that you feel desirable.

Feeling desirable is about your sensuality and radiance.

Feeling desirable is much deeper than being sexy.

It’s about feeling your inner flame.


Feminine Woman wants to be desired by him

She Wants to Feel Desired by Him

Dear Tatia:  My husband says he loves me and that i am beautiful.  I don’t see what he sees because of my postpartum baby fat.  When we make love i feel numb and disconnected until i orgasm and then i feel into it like old times. He asks me if i like it and i whisper my sweet feelings to him at these times.  He goes wild.  I know that he loves me deeply and enjoys sex with me; but i do not feel sexy outside of orgasm.  He says he desires me all the time and i truly want to feel that desire outside of the bed.  Can you help me please.  Junae


Dear Junae:

Oooooohhhhh, how lovely!

You’re doing a great job of being



  communicating with

  and hearing your man.

So vulnerable and feminine!

No wonder he desires you.

Vulnerable sexy leaning back feminine woman being desired by her man

And I get that you want to feel what he feels.

You want to feel your Irresistible feminine power that he’s experiencing.

I’m so glad you emailed me.

We can fix this honey!

It’s all about Inside Work.

Let’s get started . . .

Leaning back feminine sexy woman

You’ve got to see yourself as desirable.

You’ve got to know you’re desirable.

You’ve got to feel desirable on the inside.

It’s there and he already sees you that way!

desireable sexy leaning back woman being feminine

So it’s important that YOU see yourself as


   sweet and

   inviting on the outside

and sizzlingly sensual on the inside.



Sensuality is about

(1) being present in the moment

(2) constantly aware of what feels good to you

(3) regularly focusing on your beauty and softness

(4) and practicing self love each day.


Feminine sexy Leaning back woman being sensual


Get into the details of you.

What do you enjoy about being a woman? Please make a short list.

Ask yourself:

What Feminine things do I like to do?

What do I enjoy?

Where do I like to go that speaks to my Feminine?

I invite you to start indulging yourself in these details of you on a daily basis, especially at night.

Practice unwinding  into your inner sensuality often.


feminine leaning back sexy woman in tune with her sensuality


Set your mood to letting your sensual vibe flow smoothly.

Listen to positive and uplifting music.

Prepare soothing, delicious and healthy food.

Avoid all negative conversations, media and situations as much as possible.

Take a soothing bath or shower.

Wear lovely, gorgeous and sexy under garments just for you.

Wear them everyday to celebrate your yummy-ness.

leaning back sexy feminine woman focusing on her inner hotness


When you are with him, imagine yourself as emotionally naked

stripped down to your feminine softness

with your warmth radiating from the inside out.

This is your feminine glow of love.

The importance is that YOU see, feel and experience this inner glow.

Explore and delight in your own radiance and beauty.

These steps will lead you into feeling more desirable.

sexy leaning back feminine woman being radiant






leaning back to trigger his emotional desire


Create a Safe Space for Him to Focus on You and the Relationship . . .

feminine woman leaning back to create relationshiph space for a man



relationship space for a man






  1. Helena Hart on December 1, 2015 at 1:26 am

    Great post, Tatia! “Feeling desirable is much deeper than being sexy. It’s about feeling your inner flame…” – I LOVE this, so true!! 🙂

    Love, Helena

    • Tatia on December 1, 2015 at 5:49 pm

      Hi Helena!
      Thank you. This is a topic that’s been coming up a bit lately, especially around this time of year.
      Wishing you much love and happy holidays 🙂


  2. Stephanie on January 6, 2016 at 5:52 pm

    Once a week I write in the corner of my bathroom mirror (dry erase marker) an uplifting affirmation for me to say to myself while looking in the mirror. This has helped me work from the inside to the out.

    • Tatia on January 6, 2016 at 6:06 pm

      Hi Stephanie:

      I LOVE your mirror affirmations!
      Totally beautiful!

      Thanks for sharing this idea, I’m sure
      other readers are going to give it a try!



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