How To Stop Attracting That Same Kind Of Man

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Hi there Tatia Dee hope i spelled your name right. I would love for you to share my story . . . I been through alot. I have 4 children I been in many abusive relationships the last one i ended up in wasn’t good. The guy i was recently with right now I have a daughter with him. I do not have my children with me cause of the guy, they were taken and put into my moms care. The guy I been with he has a criminal history and has been in and out of prison his whole life and I seem to attract these types of men i have no idea why. I wish i knew. I am fighting to get my kids back. And I know that I lost everything since I been in this relationship with this guy. I lost my vehicle cause of him and my house cause of him and my children. Which I know I will be getting them back soon. I try to just not focus on any more relationships and men right now cause i do not have any trust in them anymore cause of this situation. I am afraid for my life cause of the abuse i been through and almost being killed with them. Its not good. But i am here today to talk about it cause woman do need to understand the signs and know to be heard in these types of cycles.   I do not want my daughters growing up and going through what i went through in there lives. I just know that I need to avoid these types of men. Anyways hope all is well and hope to chat soon. take care. And i will look on to your ebook online.  Thanks again.

> Big big (((HUG))) to you honey.  I hear you.  
>
> The key to breaking this cycle of choosing these kinds of men is something
> very personal to me because I've been there.  I've been mistreated even
> though I tried my hardest to make the worst situations work.  And I've
> found my way out of that.  I've found my power and I don't let myself end
> up picking these kinds of men anymore.
>
> My answer to you is that we have to understand and set our personal
> relationship boundaries and deal breakers.  Meaning, what we will not ever
> ever ever put up with.  What we do not want and will never accept.  The
> second part is to slow down men who rush into relationships so we get a
> chance to determine whether or not we are repeating a pattern with them.
> The key is to never enter a relationship with someone who we suspect is
> toxic and, if it does happen, to get out of the relationship asap.
>
> I was moved by your email.  So I am giving you a scholarship to my Power
> To Love Academy Home-Study program.  You'll start getting the emails
> today.  It's all private and by email.  You can watch the recordings
> whenever you have time.  I hope this helps you understand more about how
> to break your pattern and avoid these type of men. 
> Enjoy the home-study program.

 

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You want to attract a good man and have a lasting long term relationship.

You want to stop getting involved in relationships that don’t feel like “enough.”

You feel embarrassed about your love life experiences and wonder why your love story always turns out with the same ending.

Why does this happen?

It happens because you’re approaching love and relationships from the wrong perspective.

You’re missing a really important key in how to pick a mate.

the key

This key is your feminine energy and how it affects your behavior with a man.

Feminine energy

In order to change your behavior you need to examine your deepest beliefs about yourself and your role in a love relationship.

If you try to change your behavior without addressing your beliefs, you will always fall short of the kind of love that you want.

But when you take the time to embrace the truth of your beliefs first, then the changes in your behavior begin to show results.

WHAT ARE YOUR FEMININE BELIEFS?

Do you believe it’s feminine to make the first move?

Do you believe it’s feminine to limit yourself socially and expect the man of your dreams to just find you?

Do you believe that it’s feminine to have unrealistically high expectations of a man?

Do you believe it’s feminine to reach out to a man who doesn’t reach out to you?

These are all beliefs that minimize your feminine energy and affect your behavior with a man.

You Can Change Your Beliefs, Which Will Change Your Behavior

You can learn new behaviors that allow a man to experience your feminine energy rather than your masculine energy.

You can start today, and in a week/month/year from now see how wonderful and different things are.

You can begin the process of changing your choice of men and the type of men that you attract RIGHT NOW – TODAY.

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It all starts with understanding the power of your feminine energy.

The secret to mastering your feminine energy is found in a practice called LEANING BACK.

Briefly, leaning back is about

♥ knowing your worth

♥ knowing what you want

♥ knowing what you like

♥ and knowing how a man makes you feel.

Leaning back gives you an early opportunity to observe a man’s actions rather than being caught up in his words.

Leaning back keeps your boundaries in place so that you don’t continue interacting with a man who does not appreciate your worth, who doesn’t care about what you like or want and who doesn’t make you feel good with the things he says and does.

Leaning back is a crucial part to changing any pattern you’ve had with men in the past.

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KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT

If you’re always focused on a man or a relationship, it’s hard to embrace what you truly want.

Focusing on him or the relationship means that you’ve lost focus on yourself.

Change that by focusing on yourself now.

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Focusing on you is about living your happiness and joy right now rather than expecting a man or a relationship to make it happen for you.

You begin focusing on yourself by writing down

♥ the things you like to do

♥ the places you like to go

♥ the experiences that make you feel good

and then go do those things, go to those places and experiences those things on a regular basis.

I’m not talking about fancy or expensive things.  Just the normal everyday things that you enjoy and that are special to you.

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NOW IT’S TIME TO DELVE INTO THE ROMANTIC THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY

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Just for this moment, focus on the way you want your love relationship to make you feel.

Don’t focus on any one man in particular (even if you’re married) – for just this moment, blur out the face and just image the man.

Now focus on the feelings you want to experience in your relationship on a typical Saturday or Sunday afternoon.

What exact actions would make you feel this way? (Remember, it’s not about a specific person,  just the actions)

Congratulations!  You’ve just touched on your love relationship goals!  I invite you to write down the feelings you just imaged and explore them more deeply by asking yourself “why” you want to experience these feelings in these ways.

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Now take a few minutes to review what you’ve written and try to get really clear about how you want to feel in a love relationship.

Now ask yourself “what’s preventing me  from having these feelings in my current situation?”

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CHANGE

It’s so important to get deeper into the reality of what’s keeping you from what your heart desires.

Awareness is a good first step to making a real change to get the results you want.

If you do nothing, then nothing ever changes.

Change begins on the inside.

Change starts with a commitment to having a different result than what you’ve regularly experienced.

Change doesn’t have to be hard.

Change can happen in baby steps.

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FEMININE ENERGY BABY STEP ONE

BE GRATEFUL FOR ALL OF THE RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCES YOU’VE HAD

(Both the good and the bad)

FEMININE ENERGY BABY STEP TWO

REVIEW YOUR BELIEFS ABOUT LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS

(Don’t let you masculine habits suppress your feminine energy)

FEMININE ENERGY BABY STEP THREE

BE CLEAR WITH YOURSELF ABOUT HOW YOU WANT A LOVE RELATIONSHIP TO LOOK AND FEEL IN YOUR LIFE

(It’s about how you feel in response to what he says and does)

FEMININE ENERGY BABY STEP FOUR

NOW THAT YOU’RE CLEAR, EMBRACE HOW YOU WANT TO FEEL – AND NEVER LOWER THIS STANDARD

(Don’t settle for what you don’t want)

FEMININE ENERGY BABY STEP FIVE

Okay, you’ve made it through the first four steps, so you’re ready to learn even more about your feminine energy and how to change your love & relationship experiences for the better:

Take the next important step and watch my free 78 minute free gift webinar video =>

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