The Leaning Back Balance

The art of Leaning Back
is all about
creating a balance
focusing on yourself,
receiving from him
and responding to him.


(Click here to review Focusing on Yourself).



Receiving from him is opening up your heart and tolerating him giving you attention, gifts, compliments and more . . .


Responding is how you participate in the relationship with him, and it’s your form of “giving back.”

Responding is  also letting him know how you feel about what you’re receiving through communication, touch and creativity.



But wait . . . There’s a masculine part to this balance too!

Your masculine power comes into play when you write out your scripts of what you want to say about how you feel, what you want and what you don’t want.


Think about it.

You know what you like.

You know what you enjoy.

You know what you want.

You know what your needs are.

You know your boundaries.


Now, I realize this is not an absolute approach to relationships.

There are vacations, work schedules, family obligations, kids, schools, bills, business issues, property and other matters to be handled.

However, I want to emphasize that we’re talking about connection and his emotional attraction to you

This type of connection needs space to develop, space to occur and space to thrive.








Learn more about connection in the ACADEMY where I give details and examples about receiving, responding and more Leaning Back Tools!




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