When He Wants Space . . .

THE HOLIDAY SEASON . . .

Whether you’re dating

In a relationship

or married

it’s a time of community and connection.

 

So what’s the harm of wanting to spend special time together?

You may be envisioning . . .

Being outside together enjoying the festivities

 

together at gatherings

 

or inside together enjoying the warmth . . .

 

But instead,

HE WANTS SPACE

 

DON’T LET THIS TRIGGER CAUSE YOU TO LEAN FORWARD!

Take this time to put your energy somewhere else (on you!)
– Take care of yourself
– Dial it back (lean back)
– Shift your vibe – more feminine than masculine
– Focus on your passions, interests and giving
– When you speak to him, express your appreciation and/or pleasures

STILL FEELING ANGRY/UPSET?

Let him initiate (and continue to lean back if he doesn’t initiate):

Let him bring his energy to you, rather than you actively moving towards him with energy.  This also involves not pushing your energy at or towards him (Relationship Space).

 

Lean back even more

Stay OPEN to him. Make eye contact (remember to smile) with him and use non-verbal communication (remember to stay in the moment) instead of feeling the urge to talk (no texting).

 

Give yourself space

Let go of your expectations and any anticipation regarding him or the relationship.  Let him guide the conversation, the evening, the date and any future plans.

 

Keep your own schedule of things you enjoy

Shifting your focus will shift your vibe. Fill your time away from him with YOU, rather than thoughts about him or the relationship.  Remember to be warm and inviting when you spend time together or interact, but completely engrossed in yourself when he’s not physically there with you.

 

Widen your view

Practice your leaning back skills out in the world.  Remember Interacting With Men.

 

Journal your feelings

Get it all out by writing it down!  And remember He’s Not Perfect.

(here’s a coaching silent video particularly for the holiday season)

Happy Holidays,

Tatia

 

P.S.
Learn more about shifting to your feminine, dealing with triggers and more in the HANDBOOK

 

 

 

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